I only had a digital point and shoot in college and i rarely used it.  Then I got a hand-me-down DSLR camera from my sister 3 years ago and it’s only within this year that I start to take photography more seriously.

The camera I have is a Canon Digital Rebel Xti, I think it first came out in 2005.  Since then Canon came out with Xsi, T1i,T2i,T3i, almost every 1-2 years there’s a new model out.  The sensors got bigger, so you get more pixels, LCD screen improved, 1080p movie mode added.

Picking up a camera depends on your 1) budget, 2) the type of picture you want to take.  For someone that only started out, a entry level beginners kit could be picked up for $500 dollars that come with a standard zoom. The top brand for DSLR is Canon and Nikon and both sells good beginner kits.  Canon Xsi or Nikon D3100 are both popular kits for someone on a budget.  You can move to the Nikon D5100 or  T3i if you want to spent less than a $1000 if you’re more sure about your photography pursue.  

As you start to know what type of pictures you would like to take then you could spent on extra equipments, e.g. flash units, tripods, more lens for different type of photography, or upgrade your camera body and lens.  Investing in lens are usually more prudent then in camera bodies as lens depreciates less and are a better investment.

-Huan

That’s a great photo Huan, how long have you had this hobby? I felt like since way back into high school, I have wanted to pick up a good camera and try to learn photography skills. If you don’t mind me asking, what type of camera do you use and what would recommend for someone that is trying to get into photography?

-Imad

One of my hobbies is photography.  I went with the photography group out to Essex Ct and this is one of the pictures I took.

- Huan

One of my hobbies is photography.  I went with the photography group out to Essex Ct and this is one of the pictures I took.

- Huan

Perspective Please


HGTV is one of my guilty pleasures; from Property Virgins or the design shows, I watch them all. However, there is one show that irks me which is House Hunters International. I mean I love to see all the different places they look for houses but it’s more the problem I have with the people that are on the show.

The ones I hate to see are home buyers looking for houses in any tropical place. I simply hate them because all the people say this one phrase, “I like the lifestyle here.” What lifestyle are they talking about? The lifestyle the home buyers are experiencing is one that few on the islands will experience. Most of the buyers want to be so close to the beach than many of the islanders can’t afford to live there. This lifestyle they are experiencing is one that similar people in their position experience. 

I remember this one lady saying that the life here is so relaxed while walking through an alley of shops that looked on the verge of falling apart. Maybe the buyers should try to buy places more inland and see how relaxed they will be. The amount of poverty of some of these islands is quite astonishing. I bet the people would go to a village in Somalia and think to themselves,” Wow, this is life at its best…so minimalistic.”

- Muhammad Junaid (aka Ali)

 

Goal Setting


  • Interesting read from both of you. I will share my own personal story about trying to gain weight. It's a goal of mine for the longest time but I had made some progress this year. I was able to gain weight successfully after many tries by employing couple of methods that Imad mentioned. 1. let others know about the goal you're trying to set, which creates a support group and accountability. 2. having the resource to spent more money on food and a convenient gym where I could lift weights. 3. weight myself before the start of the goal and monitor my weight gains every week or so to track progress. The fact that I was monitoring my weight makes me become aware of how much I eats and leads me to eat more. 4. create realistic goals: my goal is only to gain ten pounds by the end of the year which equates to less than a pound a month.
  • I think another important thing is that the behavior is sustainable in the long run. There are so many ways to accomplish a goal but in order for it to be sustainable, it comes down to whether or not you can keep the behavior after the goal is met. For example, there's so many methods for people to gain or lose weight and no one method works for everyone. It takes knowing yourself and some research to find out what proven methods works and then devise a plan that one can truly follow and stay with.
  • - Huan

Goal Setting



Specific Goals

Goal setting is something I’m intimately familiar with as I do it all the time for my clients and myself. I would like to start of on a note of agreement with Dr. Halvorson in that more specific goals are more likely to be accomplished than vague goals. However, I can’t really comment on her work as a whole as I’m not familiar with it. I would also like to add that the advice “being specific” is probably not specific enough. For goals to be more likely to be achieved, they have to be specific in the right way, mainly being “operationalized” into behaviors that can be changed. Operationalized here simply means that you state the goal in a way that relates to measureable and monitored. So for example, someone looking to set goals to do better may say to him or herself “I want to be smarter!” or “I want to be a better student!” but this doesn’t help because this goal is vague in terms of describing what the actual end goal is. To operationalize these goals, we would have to start listing actual behaviors such as “I want to be increase the amount of time I want to study everyday”. Eventually, you would probably also want to go further and define what constitutes studying so its not something like being in the library but actually focusing on the task.

Long & Short Term Goals

With the above in mind, one can go about creating goals. However, since your asking for long-term (resolution type) goals, it’s important to consider what role the short-term goals play in this. In fact, I would go as far as to say that most people don’t achieve long term goals simply because they don’t have short term goals that they can meet along the way to the long term goals. For example, someone looking to spend less money this year is likely to give up that goal or not keep up with it because he or she has to wait 365 days before the actual reward from the achievement of saving money is received. Instead, a person is much more likely to be successful if there are short-term goals that mediate the long-term goals, such as “I will spend ____ amounts of money a month so by the end of the year, I will have spent less money in the year than previous years”. This provides more immediate contact with the good feeling of accomplishing the goal (end of each month) and provides a way to either adjust the goal or strategy to reach the long-term goal if the goal on the monthly basis is not being met.

It is also important here to mention that when selecting goals, they are much more likely to be successful if they are realistic. For example, if someone is looking to increase their time spent studying each day and previously they only studied 20 minutes a day, a short-term goal of 5 hours of studying each day would not be the best choice. Instead, the 5 hours goal can be the long-term goal (say over a few months or a year later) and the short term goal should be something closer, such as “I will study 60 minutes a day by the end of this month). Off course, this starting point and initial goals will vary across people and the different behaviors they are looking to change. To make sure that the goals are realistic, it is often important to get a baseline on the behavior that you are looking to change. A baseline is simply how you are currently doing in regards to your goal. For budgets, this can be related to how much money you spent in the previous year or previous month and for studying, it could be how much you typically study in a day.

Monitoring Goals

Monitoring the goals has been implicit in everything I have said above but its usually an under emphasized point. Monitoring goals makes it much more likely that you will achieve your goals. Monitoring goals can tell you information such as are the goals being achieved, if you change your strategy (study in library instead of at home) whether that changes how effectively your meeting your goals and finally in the end, monitoring the goal will eventually tell you if you reached your goal. Moreover, monitoring can in itself serve as a strategy, typically called “reactivity” in psychology. People’s behavior changes when it is observed, specifically when observed closely. I do this for many of my own goals that range from getting enough sleep to making sure I studying and exercising everyday.

Another “factoid” about monitoring is a more general statement about all human behavior. This fact is that behavior is variable and no behavior occurs the same way 100% of the time. Even the most talented musician will miss a note every once in a while, even though probably much less than a beginner musician. The idea is that to reach the goal, the variability in the behavior has to be lowered over time but not to try to eliminate it all together, as that is virtually impossible. Instead, one should focus on making sure that even with the variability, the behaviors are moving towards the goal. The picture below highlights this. The straight black line is the “goal line” which is mapping out the path to the goal. The blue lines with data points on it is the actual behavior.

 

 In this chart, it’s apparent that some of the data points were well below the line but if you look at the overall trend, the behavior is staying with the goal line. The rule of thumb used in psychology is typically 4 data points below a goal line is when you start to reevaluate your strategy because it seems like your falling off the goal line. This is fairly arbitrary but pragmatic rule of thumb. In any case, it would be helpful to set up some rules for yourself such as “if I don’t lower my spending in the first 2 months, I will adjust my strategy” will be helpful.

 

Random Tips

 Other things that make it more likely you will achieve your goals are the following:

·  Making sure the goal is something you value; you might start on a goal and realize half way that it’s not something that is vital to what you want.

·  Make the goals public. This strategy has been shown in research to increase the likelihood the goal will be successful.

·  Expect difficulties and small failures, there will always be stones in the road that we trip over but you have to learn to expect these and keep going towards the goal despite these small set ups (i.e. someone on a diet may give in and eat ice cream one day and as result, feel like they failed at their goal. In this case, the person can easily see this as a minor set back and continue the next day to start up on eating healthy again). In this case, it’s important to keep the eye on the big picture in light of small setbacks (see variability discussion above).

·     Do a resource analysis. This is another crucial step overlooked but can make or break a goal plan. For example, someone looking to eat healthy has to make sure that the healthy food is available, which requires changing grocery shopping habits, having money for healthy food (which typically costs more, have time to prepare the food, etc. All of these factors among others might not come up directly when focusing narrowly on the goal related to behavior (eat healthier) but will ultimately determine how likely one is to eat healthier.

 

Some helpful Questions to Ask Yourself When Creating and Setting Goals:

 What is my goal?

What is the value in this goal?

What is the operational definition of this goal?

What are some short-term goals that will lead to this long-term goal (Operationalized as well)?

What will I do to achieve my goal (strategy used)?

How will I monitor my goal or changes towards my goal?

How will I know when my goal is reached (if it is a static goal)?

Thats all I have for now, I’ll try to post in the future about “self-management” or “self-discipline” as a more general topic that focuses a lot more on the specific strategies, which I purposely did not cover here as it would get too lengthy. 

-Imad

Self-Management


Hi Frank,

Thats a great idea. I think I will write something about goal setting related to research on it and than I’ll try my hand at a larger, more all encompassing self-management procedure. 

Imad

Art of Goal Setting


Hey Imad, love the idea of group blogging. So as my first post, I thought it would be interesting to hear your thoughts on what tactics help you to achieve a long term goal (1 year/New Years Resolution). I’m sure many of you made some resolutions for 2011 and probably are struggling to achieve them (except of course for the Psych grad students among us who have some inhuman qualities). This book I’ve been reading, ‘Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goals’ by Heidi grant Halvorson Ph.D sheds some light on where people go wrong when setting and accomplishing a goal. Early in the book she states that a goal should be:

  1. Specific
  2. Challenging

“Goals that spell out exactly what needs to be accomplished, and that set the bar for achievement high, result in far superior performance than goals that are vague or that set the bar too low.”


Her premise is that setting a goal that is both specific and challenging allows you decide exactly what you want to achieve and therefore will not settle for anything less. If the goal is vague, you’ll increase the probability of giving up early and be content with what little progress you’ve made. The more difficult the goal, the more likely you’ll be committed to the goal, persist longer, and increase your effort.

So I’d like to hear your thoughts on this, anything you’d like to add or discredit? Thanks!

-Frank

Welcome!


Hello everyone, I know the people I have invited have already been subjected to my long, often never ending spiel about how I want to start a shared blog so we can keep the momentum going so I won’t repeat it here.

What I did want to say was that the only suggestion I would make is to post anything you wish, this blog has no particular topic or direction. The only thing I personally care about is that people share what is meaningful for them (yes this means I will be posting a lot on psychology :p) or something they wish to just share. With that in mind, I would also like to ask that if we do comment on each other’s posts, we keep it respectful. This does not mean that we don’t ever challenge or contradict, as I would not want to write in a such place myself. Rather I would want any challenges to be in terms of constructive comments and thoughts and not having conversations boiling down to personal insults, etc…

Well thats all I have, if you any ideas, questions, comments, feel free to add them. I’m very open to changing things around here and really want it to be a group inspired project. 

-Imad